For Every Action….

For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Yes, this is Newton’s third law of motion, however I also like to think of this as a law of life. Every decision we make has an outcome, sometimes the outcome is going to be what we expected and other times its going to be the complete opposite. Every action we make. Every thought we think. Every breathe we take has a reaction to it. We have all taken actions were the reaction was the opposite of what we expected. We have all made poor decisions which have had negative outcomes. We have all done things which we regret and if we could back in time we would make sure those events never happened. Since we can’t go back and prevent them from happening, we need to learn and grow from those actions which gave us the opposite reaction. We need to forgive ourselves for the choice we made at the time and move forward. At that moment in time, we thought it was the right decision to make or we weren’t thinking at all and being carefree. Whatever, the reason may be we can’t beat ourselves up over it and more importantly we can’t let others beat us up over it either. So today, I ask you to look back at the choices you’ve made were you truly hurt someone, and I want you to forgive yourself for it. Write an apology letter to yourself. I want you to look back at a time when you were hurt in away you never thought was possible and I want you to forgive that person. Again, write an apology letter to this person. Release all the pain and angry which you feel towards this person. No one is prefect. We are all learning and growing together. So lets forgive together because life is too short to waste time on being mad at someone when you should be cherishing the time you have together.